Thursday, October 31, 2013

Are We There Yet?

Johnson's Farm:

So we took the kids to the farm this past weekend and they picked pumpkins, went on a hayride and got to go through a corn maze.

I enjoyed it but my husband and I probably would've had more fun if we had left those jokers at home!

I say that because when kids get over 10 years old they become way too concerned about what other people think and say. Now those same 11-13 yr olds like getting costumes and wearing them at home and when we told them they had to wear them to the farm to get a free hayride, they were on board.

UNTIL we got there...

All of a sudden they are looking at me and my husband cross-eyed!

They were embarrassed because only smaller children seem to be wearing costumes. (So!)

Now we have 5 kids with us most of the time because #6 is away at college but they are ages 11, 12,13,13,13 (proud blended family) SO as expensive as things can be we try to save as much as possible so they can have a good time but all of this effort sometimes go unappreciated.

Fortunately, it was a beautiful sunny, crisp day with plenty of families enjoying the farm. They eventually loosened up and had a good time eating doughnuts, drinking hot chocolate and they brought pumpkins home.

I took plenty of pictures and fell in love with sunflowers and daydreamed of living on a farm with a big yellow Labrador Retriever sitting on my porch with a pumpkin patch, a corn maze and thousands of visitors coming through my home daily and suddenly I had a headache and was thankful for my little life.......

If you're ever in Southern New Jersey go for a visit:
Johnsons Farm
133 Church Road, Medford,NJ
www.johnsonsfarm.com




 




Monday, October 28, 2013

Okay, so why now?

Well I have tried two unsuccessful times to blog only to get as far as one or two postings in 2007-2008
( Epic FAIL) but also during those times when I wanted to blog, I was going through some major life changes...MAJOR.
So in a nutshell I was starting a new career, going through a divorce, four children to relocate to another state, start a new job, got remarried, gain two bonus daughters, another ex- spouse to deal with, six kids now, relocate again...okay one more relocation...last time, custody issues, got fired, find out I have ADD and so does my child!
Why I didn't have a nervous breakdown is news to me, unless I did and no one told me.
Which brings me back to (how) believe it or not most of those challenges are behind me. I realized a few things: (1) I have ADD, which explains a lot of the problems I faced growing up and now I have the tools to manage it. (2) I can only do things that I am passionate about like writing, photography, jewelry making etc
(3) I have an incredible best friend in my husband who only wants me to do things I love (4) As I get older I know tomorrow is not promised and I don't want to live with regrets in life. (other than those past ones that I'm learning to forgive myself for)

So it was now or never....